Tis the season to be outraged.

Last week, Internet evangelist Joshua Feuerstein fired the opening shots in this years war on Christmas when he posted a video lambasting Starbucks for failing to feature any images on their seasonal beakers. Do you realize that Starbucks wanted to take Christ and Christmas off of their brand new cups? he indignantly asked. On Monday, Feuerstein gained an ally in Donald Trump, who indicated Christians boycott Starbucks. If I become president, were all going to be saying Merry Christmas again, Trump said. The reaction on social media wasnt kind, with several people tweeting #ChristianitySoFragile to taunt the disagreement 😛 TAGEND

#ChristianitySoFragile is a play on the #MasculinitySoFragile hashtag, which trended earlier this year. While there are some important differences between the two, both are highlighting similar issues of structural power. When you challenge masculinity, it hits a nerve, Anthony Williams, the creator of #MasuclinitySoFragile, told the L.A. Times in September. It makes some humen nervous, he said, because it challenges notions of male ownership of female bodies and the assumption that men are superior to womens. Similarly, the annual #WarOnChristmas conservatives claim to fight is not, as they say, about maintaining Christ in Christmas but asserting predominance over American culture.

#MasculinitySoFragile was useful because it served to illustrate just how society defines manhood at the expense of marginalized groups, particularly women. The women and men using the hashtag were quick to point out how masculinity can be threatened by the most trivial of things, such as a woman turning down romantic advances or a son played with a Barbie. What should be innocuous, everyday occurrences( an adult getting told no, a child played with a toy) are seen as threats to the very foundations of society.

Shortly after the hashtag took off, people began using it to highlight needlessly gendered products, ranging from sunscreen to loofahs, ridiculing the notion that someones manhood might be compromised if he didnt use a manly cotton swab.

Sound familiar? The uproar Feuerstein has created over the Starbucks cup exposes just how fragile some Christians faith can be. Writing as a Christian myself, if your gala of the nativity is somehow compromised by a plain coffee cup, you should probably be in a church , not a coffeehouse. Its a phase The View s Candace Cameron Bure, herself an evangelical Christian, summed up in an Instagram post. A Santa, a snowflake, some holly, a polar bear, some jingle-jangle buzzers or plain red cup dont define Christmas for me as a Christian. My relationship with Jesus does.

Starbucks War on Christmas? It’s a red beaker, folks. Until Starbucks puts a newborn Jesus or nativity scene on the cup while saying Merry Christmas, then pulls it because they say its offensive, lets talk. I don’t remember Starbucks ever being a Christian company, do you? A Santa, a snowflake, some holly, a polar bear, some jingle bells or plain red cup dont define Christmas for me as a Christian. My relationship with Jesus does. So, I will joyfully sip on my Starbucks coffee, in a plain red cup, and instead of complaints about the absence of adornments, I will lovingly share the good news of Jesus Christ with friends and co-workers or anyone who’s willing to engage in dialogue. Merry Christmas to all !~ ATAGEND

A photo posted by Candace Cameron Bure (@ candacecbure) on Nov 9, 2015 at 8: 28 am PST

Like Cameron Bure, I dont define my Christianity through the secular trappings of the season. Though festive coffee cups and decorated trees are nice, my faith isnt shaken by the lack of them anymore than, tell, my masculinity is shaken by a scented candle or regular-sized Kleenex. I dont define either my relationship with God or my relationship with myself through things.

So why are people like Feuerstein and Trump so adamant about maintaining snowflakes on a coffee cup? The answer lies in the origin of the modern war on Christmas myth. Bill OReilly began featuring a segment called Christmas Under Siege on his nightly Fox News program as far back as 2004. In that segment, he laid out what he perceived as an attack on Christianity by what he dubbed secular progressives hell bent on erasing religion from American culture 😛 TAGEND

Secular progressives realize that America as it is now will never approve of lesbian matrimony, partial birth abortion, euthanasia, legalized drugs, income redistribution through taxation and many other progressive visions because of religion opposition. But if the secularists can destroy religion in the public arena, the brave new progressive world is a potential .

That year was a nexus in the gay rights battleground. 2004 sawGeorge W. Bushre-elected on a wave of evangelical votes stemming from his support for a federal constitutional amendment banning gay marriage, and OReillys Christmas Under Siege segment was an attempt to bottle that lightning. He weaponized Christmas to fabricate an assault on Christian identity.

This is a dagger Josh Feuerstein now exerts. In a jogging diatribe following the Supreme Courts decision legalizing same-sex wedding, he blasted President Obama, contending that he couldnt possibly be a Christian because how is it that a Christian could support lesbian matrimony? Feuerstein called the courts decision the beginning of the Christian holocaust.

Their Christian identity reacts with the same vitriol as masculinity does when they are threatened. Feuerstein questioning Obamas faith because of his support for equal marriage is basically the no homo of #ChristianitySoFragile. The same route that straight men will react uncomfortably, even violently, to demonstrations of affection between men or any insinuation that they themselves might be gay, Christians like OReilly and Feuerstein wrap their own religion in a blanket of homophobia. If they cannot restrict the rights of lesbian people, they themselves feel as though they are under assault.

A religion that boasts billions of followers around the world is not so fragile that its social influence could be eliminated by gays, just as patriarchy is sure to withstand a hashtag. Donald Trump and Joshua Feuerstein have nothing to anxiety: No matter what colouring Americans beakers are or what toys our children play with, are always going to be OK. Skylar Baker-Jordan is aChicago-based essayist, commentator, and journalist writing about masculinity, the LGBT community, and U.K. politics .

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